{"product_id":"selfish","title":"Selfish How to unlearn the rules that are breaking you","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe bestselling author of HAPPY (and other ridiculous aspirations) and UNMASKED explains the joy of being selfish and the practical side of self-love.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHello dear reader! Thank you for choosing this book. Was it the cover that piqued your interest? That luscious hair of mine streaming over my shoulder in the cover photo?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eOr ... was it the title?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBut why? Because, after all, who really wants to be *selfish*? Being called selfish is hurtful. It implies that you're too \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003edemanding, inconsiderate of others' needs, that you fail to put others first. It states that you're taking up too much space.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWe're told that being a good woman means being selfless. That we should give, care and carry without ever asking for rest or help.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBut what if those rules are breaking us?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIn Selfish, I flip the script on sacrifice, guilt and burnout. With honesty and humour (you know it's true!) I explore the \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003ecost of being selfless - and what happens when we dare to put ourselves first. This isn't a book about 'having it all'. It's about having yourself. If you're resentful, burned out, sick of people pleasing or simply pissed off ...\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis book is for you.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Turia Pitt","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44855503093805,"sku":null,"price":36.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0375\/6290\/8717\/files\/selfish_4.jpg?v=1776662287","url":"https:\/\/harbourbookshop.com.au\/products\/selfish","provider":"Harbour Bookshop Ulladulla","version":"1.0","type":"link"}